BDSM and Spirituality

 Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord, 23 for the husband is head of the wife as also Christ is head of the church. He is the Savior of the body. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as also Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 to make her holy, cleansing her in the washing of water by the word. (Ephesians 5:22-26)


The deeper I am headed into the lifestyle, the more questions I have had about God and my faith. Can I be a God-fearing woman while I am being spanked by my husband? Does God judge my sexual actions and kinks? The more I think and pray, the more I come to the decision that God loves us no matter what our kinks are. There are so many similarities between the BDSM lifestyle and the "Christian" way of living. Serving our Master is the same as serving the LORD. I serve my Sir and my Sir serves God. In my opinion, living with the man as the head of household is very Christian and follows the bible. 


Just as we trust the Lord, the submissive partner offers total trust to the Dominant partner, knowing that the end result will be redemption and satisfaction: 29 Let him submit absolutely; there may yet be hope. 30 Let him offer his cheek to the one who strikes it, and receive his fill of insults. (Lamentations 3:29-30)

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